“Writing about one problem often exposes others that are more important.”
— @ShaneAParrish
READING
Funny Story – I adore Emily Henry. This one is just too good to put down. Its light and breezy but believable? Love her writing and the perfect way to start my weekend. This may end up being my favorite of hers!
The Best beach reads for 2024, I stand behind many of these!
I had a blast reading my latest book club pick, Darling Girls, by Sally Hepworth. I have read quite a few of her books in the past, and loved each one. This one was a fun ride and just the type of story I enjoy. Filled with family secrets, emotions, the foster care system and of course thrills. I love getting to see into peoples thoughts and actions!
The perfect palate cleanser came with the surprisingly unputdownable Tourist Season, the perfect mix of romance and thrills. It does not hurt that it is set in the beauty of Cape Cod and its islands.
I have also just picked up in various formats (Audio, kindle, physical) Mary Kubica’s She’s Not Sorry, the free kindle unlimited find, Saltwater Cover (perfect companion to Tourist Season), and the very short (219 pages) of I’m a Fan, an unapologetic examination of feminism, obsession, and the complexities of human connection.
EATING
French fry lovers – Get your free Fries on Fridays 🙂
Totally making this, YUM
For your sweet tooth, a gummy bear cocktail
THIS cake looks phenomenal. Perfect for summer gatherings (pictured above)
PLAYING
Gardening is a hobby I love but am not great at – Tips on Growing morning glories
How to heal a trigger in the moment it is happening (Podcast)
Meditative mind music (Its an app!)
Playing barista and hosting your friends for the day? How fun! I kind of what this chalk board to plan and display my menu
ORDERING
Such a cute (Under $20) top to pair with jeans or shorts! Or this one?
This bucket bag (Adore!)
These “butter” earrings are TOO CUTE
a perfectly polished looking 2 piece for summer outings
A great sweatshirt long enough for leggings
obsessed with these earrings (they look like little “earths!”)
This dinnerware is stunning! Making me want to host a lunch/dinner party! These also look perfect for everyday use
RECOMMENDING
I just ordered these sandals (LOVE) but am eyeing these (a bit $$)
I can’t believe I have lived without this Kindle/iPad page turner for so long. Yes, totally bougie, but I adore it!!
This duvet is perfection
Some great pajamas (Can’t beat the price)
CUTE and flashy tennis dress (Great price point, too) Great dupe for this one!
Just ordered this sunshine-y swimsuit for summer, will let you know my thoughts!
My search for a designer bag has come to an end with this under $30 find!! It is so polished, structured and large enough to hold my kindle, wallet, keys, make up bag, etc! I love it!
Portable overnight oats container! (With spoon gasp!!!)
The perfect outdoor/patio side table that DOUBLES as a cooler? Yes, please!
A sunless tanner/lotion that I am trying!
Love the back on this breezy summer dress
CUTE summer tote
The perfect summer nightgown
I have been on the search for a cute little stool for my bedroom, but did not want to spend a ton of money. Problem solved with this adorable gal!!
Is the Porn star martini THE DRINK of the summer? Hmmm
THINKING
Thinking of roadtripping to one of these East Coast beaches
Excited for summer and spending time with my mom, traveling, and of course being off from work, NOT thinking about a summer body! (Great read, and hey GYMS, back off with the emails and gentle reminders
How a book club can make you happier (Agree!!!)
Cheers to Life’s Adventures: Navigating the Cocktail Conundrum
The allure of venturing into uncharted libation territory, uncovering hidden gems nestled in cozy corners, and engaging in the merry dance of social mingling! It’s as if each sip acts as a magical elixir, gently untangling the knots of anxiety while infusing a mundane day with a spark of excitement. Yet, amidst the swirling concoctions and jovial banter, a nagging doubt creeps in – have I been imbibing for the wrong reasons?
Reflecting on my journey, from the days of disordered eating where alcohol remained an untouched frontier, to the mass of conflicting messages about its virtues and vices, it’s easy to feel lost in a sea of opinions. One moment it’s hailed as the elixir of longevity, the next demonized as the harbinger of health woes. With every new study and expert proclamation, the pendulum of public opinion swings wildly, leaving us adrift in a sea of uncertainty. This uncertainty, for someone who already struggles with self doubt, is quite confusing.
Yet, amidst the chaos, one truth remains steadfast – the importance of listening to our own inner compass. For me, this means acknowledging the possibility of abstaining from spirits in the future, but also relishing in the pleasure they offer in the present. After all, life is a journey of exploration, and every cocktail shared is a chapter in the story of self-discovery. So, for now, I raise my glass to the joys of indulgence, knowing that the path to fulfillment lies in finding balance and embracing the myriad pleasures life has to offer. Cheers to the adventure that lies ahead!
So, with a mix of curiosity and caution, I embark on a journey to find a healthier balance. No more sticking to the lowest-calorie option out of habit. Instead, I’m embracing the evolving world of mixology, where bartenders are artists and every cocktail is a canvas. I enjoy the drink for the creativity and taste, not so much the effects it gives me.
It’s liberating, really, to let go of the calorie-counting and dive into a world of flavors and experimentation. From local herbs to quirky twists on classics, there’s a whole universe of tastes waiting to be explored.
But it’s not just about the drinks; it’s about the moments they create. There’s a certain magic in sitting alone at a bar, observing the world around me. From first dates to lifelong friendships, the stories unfolding beside me are as diverse as they are captivating.
Of course, there’s the occasional chat with a fellow patron, a fleeting connection over shared interests or drink recommendations. As a woman in these spaces, there’s a delicate dance between openness and caution. But ultimately, I’m here for the experience, not the judgment.
So, as I raise my glass to the adventures ahead, I do so with a newfound sense of mindfulness. Here’s to savoring the journey, one sip at a time, and finding joy in the simple pleasures of life. Cheers!