READING
This cover caught my eye – and the description even more so (complex, often challenging dynamics of sisterhood and family relationships in a contemporary setting.)
Next up, Awaeke is such an amazing author. Both books I have read have stuck with me, for different reasons, but both are winners and ones I would recommend! For the story and characters read The Death of Vivek Oji, for the spice, scandal, and gorgeous tropical island description, read You Made a Fool of Death with your Beauty . I am so grateful this author was introduced to me by one of my book club girlies. She picked The Death of Vivek for one of our book clubs and I am forever thankful to her for introducing me!
His next release has a date of June 18, but you can trust that I will be pre-ordering this one immediately! (Done!) Another gorgeous cover (a dark, thrilling narrative that delves into the complexities of sexual violence and the consequences of violence in a Nigerian city setting.)
Another immediate preorder is Ambition Monster – A humbling novel that is very relatable. Someone that appears to have it all, the career, the husband, the child. Yet is still unhappy……
TWO unsettling but unputdownable reads for me this week include Confessions (read the triggers, please) and Bye, Baby (free on Kindle Unlimited!) Wow, both have broken me free of my book hangover (From Kristin Hannah’s latest, The Women)
EATING
Vegan mushroom recipes – Fitting 🙂
PLAYING
I am NOT play the new Taylor Swift album, don’t come at me, please 🙂
3 Body Problem (On Netflix) I am intrigued by this series based on the novel The Three Body Problem, a remembrance of Earth’s past but also a reflection on humanity’s future
Girl Time:
My friend and I had an adult play date over the weekend. We packed our bags and headed out to Kennett Square, PA. We had been contemplating a little readers retreat but timing and distance was a challenge, so we came across the adorable Bookhouse Hotel. It is a boutique hotel, which was a former book store. It has 4 rooms all similar yet different in their own unique way. It would be so much fun to rent out the entire place for a bookish girls weekend. Fill your time with books, talks, laughs, shopping, eating and drinking delicious concoctions.
Kennett square is the mushroom capital of of the WORLD because over half of all U.S. mushrooms come from this area. Who knew!! Every September there is a mushroom festival which brings foragers from all over to this quaint little town to explore and taste all things mushrooms. I will definitely be checking this out, as I love mushrooms and loved the area so much! I am also excited for the future possibilities. SO MUCH potential!
Back to our lovely hotel. It was just that. So lovely. As soon as you enter you are filled with inspiration to ……read. Books surround you, as well as smoked glass mirrors. Such a great vibe and set up! There was even a little table with benches and pillows, excellent for a book club or larger space to chat all things books. The front porch had some rocking chairs which would be fab in warmer weather to sit outside with a cocktail or coffee and people watch in the breeze.
We made our way up to our space and WOW, talk about book lovers dream!
We had so much fun exploring all of the great titles (that are to be left at the hotel BUT can be purchased, select your title(s) and they will be shipped to you). We also had an upstair sitting area that was cozy with a couch and MORE BOOKS. Excellent for talking and hanging out or a charcuterie set up 🙂 The bathroom was HUGE. Our room had a lovely claw foot tub, which looked too intricate and complicated for me to figure out (ha!).
There was a small kitchenette with mini fridge, keurig and many other amenities useful for a fun weekend (Yes wine glasses and corkscrew included).
Our suite had 2 bedrooms which were next to each other. The green room and the blue room.
The beds were SO comfortable, we actually ended up drinking of coffee and gabbing and laughing for hours the next morning.
I highly recommend staying for a fun bookish weekend, and of course if you’d like to explore nearby Longwood Gardens (which make sure you book in advance!!!). Also nearby are the Winterthur gardens and Museum, as well as Nemours estate and gardens. Neither of which we visited during our short stay, but I am doing things a bit backwards and doing my research now, so you dear readers can reap all the rewards!
The town is a very short walk (uphill) and just be advised the hotel is located at a busy intersection so be wary and cautious. There is an incredibly delicious and beautiful coffee shop filled with plants and snacks and of course excellent coffee called Philter. The staff were so kind and accommodating each time I visited during my short stay (Yes, I have a coffee problem). In fact, we found this throughout. Kindness! People actually wanted to talk. They were curious. They were open to suggestions and feedback! IT was so refreshing.
There are many great restaurants depending on your mood. We decided to have a drink (which turned into three) at Portabella. The bartender was so lovely (best hair EVER) and truly made delicious cocktails. She was so sweet and again, so informative. I had an old fashioned (Yum! Who am I?) and my friend ordered the Phoenix Rising (Pear Vodka, Lemon, Ginger, Turmeric, Cayenne, Agave). Did I mention how delicious they were?
The following day we decided to have a light lunch at The Market, which is a scaled down version of Reading Market terminal. We found Verde, a restaurant with vegan choices and we were both very happy! You could not go wrong with any of the choices inside! Highly recommend, the brewery inside looked intriguing and like a lot of fun as well!
We had a very short trip to Kennett square but it scratched our itch for a little getaway and some great belly laughs. I have high hopes for The Bookhouse Hotel and wish I lived closer so that I could join their book club!! Check out the website for more information AND please reach out if you have any questions or need recommendations!
OBSERVING
How to disappear – Oh yes, I would like to do this, often
RECOMMENDING
Gosh, I love her
Such a happy dress
These scrunchies would “fancy” up just about any outfit
She’s a dream, but not for my budget
What a pretty and clever idea for keeping your eye glasses safe and handy (great mothers day gift idea, too!)
Continuing my obsession with another bedside carafe (So pretty!)
Feminine white top
Love this pretty quilted tote
a pretty bedroom refresh with some scallop edged throw pillows and a royal night lamp? Wow, or this bow throw?
THINKING
Should I color analyze myself? Will you try it? Let me know what you get!
Why are you still single? Answer here
Thinking about…..How my time is spent
Ah, the sweet satisfaction of a truly productive day! For me, it’s a symphony of movement, meaningful work, and a sprinkle of indulgence for myself. I thrive on the rhythm of order and productivity, dancing through tasks with purpose. Conversely, nothing weighs heavier on my spirit than wasted time. Those moments filled with mindless distractions feel like a betrayal to my goals, sending my anxiety into overdrive and casting a shadow over my day. It’s not just a mental burden; it’s a physical sensation, like something gnawing at my insides, desperate to break free.
The word “trapped” echoes in my mind like a persistent drumbeat. Over the years, I’ve painstakingly dismantled the barriers I once imposed on myself, striving to fit into a mold shaped by others’ expectations. I carried the weight of guilt and selfishness for daring to prioritize my own happiness, fearing disappointment and rejection. Always putting others before myself, I found myself ensnared in a cycle of internal conflict and dissatisfaction.
I’ve lingered too long in relationships, convincing myself it was the right thing to do, hoping that one day, my feelings would miraculously align with expectations. But it was a facade, a self-deception that ultimately led to my own disillusionment. With each new beginning, I vowed to break free from old habits, only to find myself retracing familiar paths, haunted by unspoken thoughts and unfulfilled desires.
Yet, amidst the turmoil, I’ve gained clarity. I’ve learned to recognize the signs of self-imposed confinement more swiftly, refusing to inflict unnecessary pain upon myself any longer. While certain obligations remain beyond my control—like bills and schedules—I’ve redirected my focus towards the things I can influence. With each conscious effort to break free from the shackles of expectation, I feel lighter, more liberated.
I may not have reached the summit just yet, but I’m closer than ever before. The journey to self-discovery is ongoing, but with each step, I reclaim a piece of myself and forge a path towards authentic fulfillment.